This is the story of two brothers
One was a drug addict and alcoholic who frequently beat up his family.
The other one was a successful business man who was respected in society and had a wonderful family
The psychologist asked the drug addict brother why he was who he is. – because of my father ( a drug addict, alcoholic and abuser)
The psychologist asked the same question to the successful brother – because of my father ( a drug addict, alcoholic and abuser )
The successful brother continued “ when i was a little boy i made up my mind that i didn’t want to be the same as my bad father “
You decide who you want to be.